I just setup git-annex across three macs, using git-annex assistant.  I have one repository working fine, which successfully syncs between two of my own accounts on two different machines, via S3.

Now I'm trying to get the "share with a friend" feature to work.  The problem is that only Mac Alias's / sym links are created, for example:

Machine 1:
- Copy file into ~/annex/

Machine 2:
- The file is synced as a sym-link, with a link into a file in .git that doesn't exist.

The config is:
- Version: 4.20130909-ga29f960 - Build flags: Assistant Webapp Pairing Testsuite S3 WebDAV FsEvents XMPP DNS Feeds Quvi
- Two macs
- Share with friend over Jabber
- Use Box as the cloud sync service with encryption enabled.  Box is setup as a transfer repository.

I've looked through the logs in .git/annex/daemon.log* and there doesn't look to be any problems.

This is what the log looks like:

    [2013-09-14 19:55:47 PDT] Committer: Adding 20120101-..084-1.jpg
    failed
    add /Users/nick/Shared/20120101-GOPR0084-1.jpg (checksum...) ok 
    add /Users/nick/Shared/20120101-GOPR0084-1.jpg (checksum...) ok 
    add /Users/nick/Shared/20120101-GOPR0084-1.jpg (checksum...) ok 
    add /Users/nick/Shared/20120101-GOPR0084-1.jpg (checksum...) ok 
    add /Users/nick/Shared/20120101-GOPR0084-1.jpg (checksum...) [2013-09-14 19:55:47 PDT] Committer: Committing changes to git
    [2013-09-14 19:55:48 PDT] XMPPSendPack: Syncing with USER2 
    Already up-to-date.
    To xmpp::USER2@gmail.com
       7b65b15..183b91c  git-annex -> refs/synced/6163ef8e-c36a-4b09-919b-9c18ade55234/bmlja2JsYWNrMUBnbWFpbC5jb20=/git-annex
       3104275..96afa09  master -> refs/synced/6163ef8e-c36a-4b09-919b-9c18ade55234/bmlja2JsYWNrMUBnbWFpbC5jb20=/master
    [2013-09-14 19:55:49 PDT] XMPPSendPack: Syncing with USER2 
    Everything up-to-date
    recv: resource vanished (Connection reset by peer)


Any ideas what I should look at next?  Thanks in advance :-)